Relationships can be complicated, and sometimes it’s difficult to know whether to call it quits or give it another shot.
If you’re feeling unsure about the state of your relationship, take this quiz to help you determine whether you should break up or make up.
1. How often do you fight?
a. Rarely – we rarely argue or have conflicts.
b. Occasionally – we have our disagreements but they’re manageable.
c. Frequently – we argue often and it’s becoming a pattern.
2. How do you feel after an argument?
a. We quickly resolve our issues and move on.
b. It takes some time, but eventually, we work things out.
c. We often end up resenting each other and the issue remains unresolved.
3. Are you happy in your relationship?
a. Yes, I’m content and fulfilled.
b. I have moments of happiness but also moments of doubt.
c. No, I feel unhappy and unfulfilled.
4. How well do you communicate with each other?
a. We communicate effectively and openly.
b. We struggle with communication but try to work on it.
c. We rarely communicate and often misunderstand each other.
5. How often do you trust each other?
a. Completely – trust is not an issue for us.
b. Sometimes – there are moments of doubt, but overall we trust each other.
c. Rarely – trust is a major issue in our relationship.
6. How do you feel about your future together?
a. Excited – I envision a happy future with my partner.
b. Uncertain – I’m not sure if we have a future together.
c. Doubtful – I don’t see a future with my partner.
7. How do you handle disagreements?
a. We discuss our differences calmly and find a compromise.
b. We argue but eventually find a middle ground.
c. We often escalate arguments and never find a resolution.
8. Are there any major dealbreakers in your relationship?
a. No, we share similar values and goals.
b. There are a few but we’re willing to work on them.
c. Yes, there are significant differences that can’t be reconciled.
9. How do you feel when you spend time apart?
a. I enjoy my alone time but also look forward to being together.
b. It’s nice to have some space but I don’t miss them much.
c. I feel relieved and happier when we’re apart.
10. Are you both willing to work on the relationship?
a. Yes, we’re committed to improving and growing together.
b. We’re unsure if it’s worth the effort.
c. No, we’re both unwilling to put in the work.
Results:
Now that you’ve answered the questions, it’s time to see the results. Add up the number of times you chose a, b, or c and check which option you selected the most.
If you selected mostly:.
A answers:
Your relationship seems to be in a good place. Communication, trust, and happiness are vital components of a healthy relationship, and it appears that you and your partner possess these qualities.
Keep nurturing your connection and enjoy the love you share!.
B answers:
Your relationship has its ups and downs, but it’s not beyond repair. It’s important to address your issues and work on improving communication and trust.
Couples counseling or open discussions can help you find common ground and decide whether making up is the right choice.
C answers:
It appears that your relationship is facing serious challenges. Frequent fighting, unhappiness, and lack of trust are warning signs that should not be ignored. It might be time to consider whether breaking up is the best option for both of you.
Seeking professional help can provide guidance during this difficult time.