Infidelity is a sensitive and serious issue in all relationships. The fear of being cheated on by one’s partner can cause anxiety and tension, and for some, the fear can turn into reality.

Cheating in a relationship takes many forms, and one of the most hurtful is cheating during sex.

Women cheat for various reasons, including lack of sexual satisfaction, emotional needs, and boredom. While some women are discreet about their cheating, others may show signs during sex that suggest they are being unfaithful.

Here are the signs to look out for:.

1. She avoids eye contact during sex

Eye contact during sex is an intimate act that strengthens the connection between partners. However, when a woman cheats, she may feel guilty and avoid eye contact with her partner.

She may also be unable to sustain eye contact during sex as her mind will often wander to the affair and the guilt that she is experiencing.

2. She appears distant or disconnected during sex

When a woman is cheating, she may become detached from her partner and the intimate connection they once shared. She may appear distracted, disinterested or detached from the moment and lack enthusiasm for sex.

This emotional detachment will make her less present, and her body language may also reflect this disconnection.

3. She changes her routine or habits

If your partner suddenly changes her routine or habits without a valid reason, it could indicate that she is having an affair outside of your relationship.

She may be spending extra time at work, running more errands, or spending more time with friends who you’ve yet to meet. Any sudden changes like these should be discussed, and you can ask her if there are any issues that she would like to share with you.

4. She is not interested in experimenting sexually

Couples who are comfortable with each other often experiment sexually, and this can be an effective way to keep the flame of love burning.

However, when a woman is cheating, she may lose interest in trying new things or experimenting sexually with her partner. She may also start blaming her partner and accuse him of being unsatisfying or selfish even when it was not the case initially.

5. She is uncomfortable during sex

When a woman is cheating, she may get uncomfortable during sex because she is already experiencing guilt or discomfort from the affair she is having outside of the relationship.

She may also be distant and robotic during the act, and this might indicate that she is not enjoying the experience as she would if you were both in love and involved.

6. She takes longer to climax than usual

When a woman is cheating, she may take longer to reach an orgasm during sex. This is because she is not feeling the same emotional or physical connection with her partner as she once did and may find it difficult getting aroused.

In fact, it could be that they are even fantasizing about someone else rather than their current partner.

7. She has lost interest in sex

A sudden loss of interest in sex could indicate that a woman is having an affair outside of the relationship.

It often means that the woman is getting her sexual needs met in another relationship and no longer finds sex with her partner exciting or relevant.

8. She is no longer affectionate

When a woman is cheating, she may develop feelings of guilt, which will often lead to her withdrawing from displays of affection such as kissing, hugging, and holding hands.

She may avoid physical contact to avoid being reminded of her infidelities and avoid any emotional connection which could weight down her conscious.

9. She is secretive about her phone

When a woman is cheating, she may feel the need to hide or clear her phone’s history to avoid any trace of her infidelity from being found. She may start to take her phone everywhere she goes and may not allow her partner to use it.

This behavior is often a sign that there is something to hide, and suspicions can be raised when it comes to their fidelity during your sex encounters as well.

10. She becomes defensive when asked about infidelity

When a woman is cheating, she may become defensive whenever questioned about her fidelity. She may start accusing you of being jealous or overbearing and shut down completely.

Her defensive behavior may indicate that she has something to hide, and may take the conversation to avoid being caught and leaving you with a nagging feeling at the back of your mind.

Conclusion

Cheating in relationships is never a good thing, let alone evident during sexual encounters. It’s quite challenging to understand why anyone would cheat; it’s even more challenging to pick the signs of infidelity.

However, if you suspect that your partner is cheating or behaving abnormally during sex, you need to be upfront with her and discuss how you can resolve any issues as a couple. Avoiding the conversation will only lead to more pain and heartache if the suspicion turns out to be true.