A recent study has shown that a majority of men do not consider kissing as cheating.
The study conducted by a popular men’s lifestyle magazine surveyed thousands of men across the United States and revealed some very surprising statistics about what they consider cheating, and what they don’t.
What is Cheating?
For most people, cheating is engaging in any kind of intimate or sexual act with someone other than their partner. However, the study revealed that what people consider as cheating varied greatly depending on gender and age.
For example, while most women included emotional cheating as a form of infidelity, men didn’t show as much concern about this form of cheating.
What Men Consider Cheating
According to the study, only 30% of men saw kissing as cheating. The majority of men, 70%, only saw sex as cheating, and a small percentage of men even considered sexting and online flirting as cheating.
This may come as a surprise to many women or people who believe that cheating includes anything that is done behind their partner’s back.
However, this study is only a snapshot of the attitudes towards cheating that exist within the male community.
Why Men Don’t Consider Kissing as Cheating
There are several reasons why men might not consider kissing as cheating. The most obvious one is that kissing is not as intimate as sex.
While sex requires the exchange of bodily fluids, kissing is a simple act of affection that can be done without any further commitment or emotion.
Additionally, men might be more likely to compartmentalize their emotions and actions when it comes to infidelity.
They might see kissing as a harmless physical act that doesn’t have any long-term consequences, while sex is seen as a more significant betrayal.
The Double Standard
While the study focused on the attitudes of men towards cheating, it’s important to note that there is a double standard when it comes to infidelity.
Women are still judged far more harshly than men when it comes to cheating, and the consequences for women can be much more severe.
Women often face social stigma, and even violence, for infidelity, while men are often given a pass. Additionally, men often blame women for their infidelity, citing their lack of attention or unfulfilled needs.
The Impact of Cheating
Regardless of what men consider as cheating, the impact of infidelity on a relationship cannot be underestimated. Cheating can cause a tremendous amount of hurt, betrayal, and damage to trust.
It can lead to the dissolution of a marriage or relationship, and it can have long-term effects on a person’s mental health.
Furthermore, cheating is often just a symptom of deeper issues within a relationship. If one partner feels neglected, unappreciated, or misunderstood, they may turn to someone else for validation or comfort.
It’s important for couples to communicate and work on their issues before they escalate and lead to infidelity.
Conclusion
The study’s results are surprising and shed light on the attitudes of men towards cheating.
While kissing is not seen as cheating by most men, it’s important to remember that infidelity can have serious consequences on a relationship regardless of how it’s defined.
Couples should take steps to communicate and work on their relationships to avoid the temptation to cheat.
Moreover, we should all recognize the double standard that exists when it comes to infidelity and work to create a more equal and fair society for all.