Sex, a physical act that brings pleasure and intimacy, can also be dangerous if not conducted responsibly.

Men, in particular, are often the instigators and initiators of sexual activities, and so they have a heightened responsibility to ensure that sex is safe and consensual. However, some men harbor attitudes that can make sex dangerous for themselves and their partners. In this article, we will explore the top 3 attitudes that can make sex dangerous for men.

Attitude #1: The Belief in Masculine Dominance

One of the most dangerous attitudes that men can have during sex is the belief in masculine dominance. Men who subscribe to this belief see themselves as the “alpha” and view their sexual partners as inferior or submissive.

They may attempt to dominate their partners physically or mentally, using violence or coercion to get what they want.

This attitude can be dangerous because it often leads to non-consensual sex, resulting in trauma and emotional harm to the victim. It also reinforces patriarchal norms that promote toxic masculinity and perpetuate rape culture.

Men who believe in masculine dominance may not recognize their behavior as abusive and may even justify their actions as necessary to satisfy their sexual desires.

Attitude #2: The Perpetuation of Sexual Myths

Another dangerous attitude that men can have during sex is the perpetuation of sexual myths.

Men who spread myths or engage in behaviors that are not based on scientific evidence can put themselves and their partners at risk of sexually transmitted infections or unintended pregnancies.

One common myth is that men cannot contract sexually transmitted infections from women. This myth is particularly dangerous as it can lead to the spread of infections such as HIV or Hepatitis B.

Another myth is that withdrawal or “pulling out” is an effective method of birth control. This myth can result in unintended pregnancies, which can have long-lasting consequences for both partners.

The third dangerous attitude that men can have during sex is the lack of respect for consent.

Consent is the cornerstone of healthy sexual relationships, and it is the responsibility of both partners to ensure that they are engaging in consensual activities. Men who do not respect their partner’s wishes or boundaries during sex are engaging in non-consensual activities and may be committing sexual assault or rape.

Lack of respect for consent can manifest in various ways, such as pressuring a partner to engage in sexual activities they are not comfortable with, ignoring their partner’s nonverbal cues, or engaging in sexual activities while their partner is incapacitated by drugs or alcohol. Men who do not respect their partner’s consent also demonstrate a lack of respect for their partner as a person and a disregard for their physical and emotional wellbeing.

Conclusion

Sex can be a pleasurable and intimate activity, but it can also be dangerous if not conducted responsibly. Men, in particular, have a responsibility to ensure that they and their partners engage in safe and consensual sexual activities.

The attitudes discussed above – belief in masculine dominance, perpetuation of sexual myths, and lack of respect for consent – are examples of how men can make sex dangerous for themselves and their partners. By understanding these attitudes and correcting them, men can create a safer and healthier sexual environment for themselves and others.