It’s no secret that men and women have different sexual desires and preferences. While some things may be obvious, there are other desires that men might keep hidden or not be so vocal about.

We asked a group of 6 men to share their insights on what they secretly desire in bed.

1. Adventure and Variety

One of the most common responses we received was the desire for adventure and variety in the bedroom. Men don’t want to do the same thing every time they have sex.

They want to try new positions, explore new fantasies, and experiment with different types of play.

2. Affection and Intimacy

While many people believe that men only care about physical pleasure during sex, our survey showed that affection and intimacy are just as important.

Men want to feel loved and desired by their partner and want to be able to show affection and intimacy during sex. This can include cuddling, kissing, and caressing during and after sex.

3. Communication and Feedback

Communication and feedback were also high on the list of desires for men. They want their partners to tell them what they like and don’t like, and to give feedback on what feels good and what could be improved.

They also want to feel comfortable doing the same with their partner so that both partners can have a more enjoyable experience.

4. Confidence and Independence

Men find confidence and independence attractive in a partner, and this extends into the bedroom. They want their partner to be confident in their body and their sexual desires, and to be able to take the lead in the bedroom if they want to.

This can help to create a more equal and enjoyable sexual experience for both partners.

5. Sensuality and Sensitivity

While physical pleasure is important, men also desire a more sensual and sensitive sexual experience.

This can include slow and gentle movements, taking time to explore each other’s bodies, and enjoying the emotional connection that comes with sex. Men want to feel desired and appreciated for more than just their physical attributes.

6. Spontaneity and Surprises

Finally, our survey showed that men crave spontaneity and surprises in the bedroom. They want to be surprised by their partner with unexpected acts of pleasure, spontaneous sex in new locations, and the occasional role play or kinky play.

This helps to keep the sexual experience fresh and exciting, and can enhance the overall connection between partners.

Conclusion

While every man is different, these insights offer a glimpse into the secret desires of many men when it comes to sex.

It’s important for partners to communicate openly with each other about what they want and need in the bedroom so that both partners can have a more enjoyable experience. Variety, intimacy, communication, independence, sensuality, and surprises are just a few of the things that men secretly desire in bed.