Sex toys can enhance the pleasure of sexual activities. However, it’s important to handle them with care and follow proper hygiene practices. In this article, we will discuss 30 common mistakes that people make with sex toys and hygiene.
Mistake 1: Not cleaning before and after use
It’s essential to sanitize sex toys before and after use to prevent the spread of germs and bacteria. Use warm water and soap, or a specialized toy cleaner, to clean the surface of the toy. Don’t forget to dry it thoroughly before storing.
Mistake 2: Using the wrong lubricant
Using the wrong type of lubricant can damage the sex toy’s material. Water-based lubricants are generally safe to use with all toys, whereas some silicone-based lubricants can react with certain materials.
Always read the manufacturer’s instructions before choosing a lubricant.
Mistake 3: Not storing properly
Proper storage can prolong the life of your sex toy. Keep it in a dry and cool place, away from direct sunlight. Don’t store toys made from different materials together, as they can react and cause damage.
Mistake 4: Sharing without protection
Sharing is not caring when it comes to sex toys. Always use a condom or other barrier method to prevent the spread of STIs, even if the toy is only used on one partner.
Mistake 5: Not replacing batteries
If your sex toy runs on batteries, change them regularly to prevent leakage and damage to the toy. Make sure to remove the batteries when not in use to avoid corrosion.
Mistake 6: Going too hard
Don’t use excessive force when handling sex toys. They are designed to provide pleasure, not endure harsh treatment. Using too much force can damage the toy or even hurt your body.
Mistake 7: Not checking for damage
Before using a sex toy, always inspect it for any damage or cracks. If there are any signs of damage, don’t use the toy as it could cause injury or infection.
Mistake 8: Using the wrong size
Choosing the wrong size of sex toy can be uncomfortable and even painful. Always select a toy that is suitable for your body size and shape.
Mistake 9: Not using enough lubrication
Using sex toys without enough lubrication can cause friction, leading to discomfort and irritation. Apply enough lubricant to ensure a smooth and pleasurable experience.
Mistake 10: Not following instructions
Always read the manufacturer’s instructions before using a sex toy. The instructions explain how to properly use and care for the toy, so you can enjoy it safely and effectively.
Mistake 11: Using toys made from unsafe materials
Sex toys made from unsafe materials can contain harmful chemicals that can cause irritation, infection, or other health problems. Always purchase toys made from body-safe materials and from reputable manufacturers.
Mistake 12: Using toys with missing parts
Don’t use a sex toy if it’s missing parts, such as a cap or plug. Missing parts can cause damage to the toy or your body, and can also affect its performance.
Mistake 13: Not sterilizing porous toys
Porous sex toys can absorb bacteria, making them more difficult to clean. To properly sanitize porous toys, boil them for at least 10 minutes or use a specialized cleaner.
Mistake 14: Using toys with sharp edges
Sex toys with sharp edges or protrusions can cause injury or damage to sensitive areas. Always choose toys with a smooth surface and rounded edges.
Mistake 15: Not replacing toys that are too old
Like any other product, sex toys have a lifespan and can wear out over time. Replace toys that have become worn or damaged to ensure safety and maximum pleasure.
Mistake 16: Not seeking medical help after injury
If you experience discomfort or injury during or after using a sex toy, seek medical attention immediately. Delaying treatment can lead to further complications and health problems.
Mistake 17: Using toys with incompatible lubes
Some sex toys are not compatible with certain types of lubricants, including oil-based and hybrid lubes. Always check the manufacturer’s instructions for recommended lubricants.
Mistake 18: Not using a condom with porous toys
As mentioned earlier, porous toys can absorb bacteria and trap germs. To avoid the risk of infection, always use a condom or other barrier method with porous toys.
Mistake 19: Not using condoms during anal play
Anal play involves a higher risk of infection due to the presence of bacteria and fecal matter. Always use a condom or other barrier method during anal play to prevent the spread of STIs.
Mistake 20: Not using enough water-based lubrication during anal play
The rectum doesn’t produce natural lubrication, which can make anal play uncomfortable and painful. Always use enough water-based lubrication to ensure a comfortable experience.
Mistake 21: Not cleaning toys after switching orifices
Switching from anal play to vaginal play with the same toy can introduce harmful bacteria into the vagina, leading to infection. Always clean the toy thoroughly before using it on a different orifice.
Mistake 22: Not cleaning toys after use on a partner
Sharing sex toys with a partner is fun, but it can also increase the risk of infection. Always clean the toy thoroughly after using it on a partner.
Mistake 23: Using toys with frayed wires
Sex toys with frayed wires can cause electrical shocks or fires. If you notice any damage to the wires, don’t use the toy and replace it immediately.
Mistake 24: Not using enough water when cleaning toys
When cleaning toys with running water, make sure to use enough water to rinse away any soap residue. Soap residue can cause irritation and infection.
Mistake 25: Using toys without a flared base during anal play
Using toys without a flared base during anal play can cause the toy to get stuck in the rectum. Always choose toys with a flared base to avoid this risk.
Mistake 26: Not checking for allergens
Some people are allergic to certain materials used in sex toys. Always check the toy’s material before using it and stop immediately if you experience any signs of allergy.
Mistake 27: Not storing toys separately
To prevent damage and contamination, always store different sex toys in separate containers or bags. This will also make it easier to find the toy you want to use.
Mistake 28: Not cleaning toys between partners
Sharing sex toys with multiple partners can increase the risk of STI transmission. Always clean the toy thoroughly between each partner, or use a new condom or barrier method.
Mistake 29: Not cleaning toys after leaving them unused for a long time
If you haven’t used a sex toy for a long time, it’s still important to clean it before using it again. This will help remove any dust or bacteria that may have accumulated.
Mistake 30: Not storing toys securely
Keep sex toys out of reach of children and pets, and store them in a secure location to prevent unauthorized access. You can also use a lockable container for additional security.