Society has long repressed thoughts and discussions about sexual fantasies. However, it is essential to recognize that the most natural human urge is the craving of physical intimacy. Over time, attitudes have shifted towards indulging in sexual desires.

A survey conducted by the University of Montreal noted that 58% of men and 31% of women claim to have had a sexual fantasy or desire in their lifetime.

However, it is important to note that sexual fantasies can be confusing for some, and it can be overwhelming to discuss with their partner. Therefore, here are twelve sexual fantasies that are safe, and most popular amongst couples:.

1. BDSM

Bondage, domination, sadism, and masochism (BDSM) is a sexual fantasy that involves consensual power dynamics between the partners. It can include anything from light spanking to full BDSM with ropes, chains, and submission devices.

BDSM can be discussed freely with your partner, and safe words should be established before engaging in any play.

2. Role-playing

Playing out different roles during sexual activity can add some spice to your sexual life. A few role-playing ideas include doctor/nurse, secretary/boss, and teacher/student. Discuss boundaries with your partner, such as how far to take the role-playing.

3. Exhibitionism

Exhibitionism involves exposing oneself in public but being safe. It can be as simple as making love with the curtains open or in a private yard outside. Just make sure not to break any laws or offend anyone with public displays of affection.

4. Voyeurism

Watching your partner during sex can be an enormous turn-on. It allows the viewer to see their partner in a new light, and experiencing more intimate moments together.

5. Group Sex

Group sex is a consensual activity between multiple people. It should be agreed upon by all parties involved, and it is essential to practice safe sex, including the use of condoms and regular STI testing.

6. Threesome

A threesome is a popular sexual fantasy that can involve either two men and one woman or two women and one man. There needs to be open communication and consent before engaging in any sexual activity.

7. Swinging

Swinging is a form of group sex that includes regular sexual partners. Couples can try out different partners and swap their partners with others. This sexual fantasy can be discussed with other couples and should be agreed upon.

8. Sensory Deprivation

Sensory deprivation involves restricting one’s senses during sex to heighten the sexual experience. It can include wearing a blindfold, handcuffs, or earplugs.

9. Foot Fetishism

A foot fetish involves sexual attraction to feet or shoes. This sexual fantasy is relatively common. One can indulge in their partner’s feet, or if not comfortable, one can use other objects, such as shoes or boots.

10. Pregnancy Fetish

A pregnancy fetish involves experiencing sexual pleasure when a partner is pregnant. It can include anything from rubbing the stomach to engaging in sexual activity during pregnancy.

It is essential to consult a doctor before engaging in any sexual activity during pregnancy to avoid any health complications.

11. Sex Toys

Sex toys can add an additional layer of excitement to one’s sexual experience. From vibrators to bondage gear, there is a vast range of toys that couples can try out.

It is essential to communicate with your partner before using any toys to ensure they are okay with it.

12. Phone Sex

Phone sex involves sexual conversation over the phone, which is an incredibly erotic and fun activity. Couples can engage in phone sex when they are not together or are looking to supplement their sexual experience.

It can include exchanging messages or sharing intimate photos with each other.

Conclusion

Sexual fantasy is a natural aspect of human life. It is common to have desires that would have been taboo a few decades ago. However, discussing sexual fantasies openly with partners can strengthen the relationship.