When the Fifty Shades of Grey series by E.L. James was released in 2011, it quickly became a phenomenon, selling over 125 million copies worldwide.

The books were known for their steamy BDSM scenes, and their popularity sparked a conversation about the prevalence of kink and the societal stigma surrounding it.

Seven years later, a new study has emerged shedding light on just how common kinky desires are among the population. Researchers at the University of Montreal surveyed over 1,000 people about their sexual fantasies, behaviors, and preferences.

The results, published in the Journal of Sex Research, suggest that BDSM activities are not only popular, but they’re actually quite common.

What are the results?

The survey found that almost half of the participants had experimented with some form of BDSM activity, with 24% having tried bondage, 20.4% having engaged in spanking, and 14.2% having tried domination or submission.

Additionally, more people reported fantasizing about BDSM than actually engaging in it, with 65.2% reporting having BDSM fantasies while only 46.7% having acted on those fantasies.

The researchers also found that people who engaged in BDSM activities reported higher levels of sexual satisfaction and lower levels of anxiety than those who didn’t.

They also found that BDSM practitioners had higher levels of agreeableness and conscientiousness, and were less neurotic than those who weren’t as interested in BDSM.

Why is this important?

While some may see BDSM as taboo or deviant, this research shows that it’s actually quite common. By shedding light on the prevalence of these desires, we can begin to break down the stigma surrounding them and create a more accepting society.

Additionally, the study found that those who engage in BDSM activities reported higher levels of sexual satisfaction and lower levels of anxiety.

This can be important for those who may have struggled with sexual issues or stress in their lives to explore this side of themselves and find a greater sense of fulfillment and peace.

One important aspect of BDSM activities is the issue of consent. The study found that those who engaged in BDSM activities emphasized the importance of communication and consent.

This is crucial, as BDSM activities can involve physical and emotional vulnerability and it’s important that all parties involved feel safe and respected.

It’s important to note that while BDSM can be a healthy and fulfilling aspect of sexuality, it’s not for everyone.

It’s important to listen to your own desires and boundaries, and to engage in any sexual activity with a partner who respects those boundaries.

Conclusion

The Fifty Shades of Grey series may have sparked a conversation about BDSM in mainstream culture, but this recent study shows that kinky desires are more common than we may have previously thought.

By breaking down the stigma surrounding BDSM and emphasizing the importance of consent and communication, we can create a more accepting and fulfilling sexual culture for everyone.