Attention is something that we all crave. And when it comes to men’s attention, we sometimes go to absurd lengths to get it. From dressing a certain way to acting all coy, there are things that we do that we know are just plain ridiculous.
In this article, we’ll take a look at some of the absurd practices we all do for men’s attention.
Dressing to impress
One of the most obvious things we do to get men’s attention is dress in a way that we think will impress them. We may wear revealing clothes or dress up in a way that we don’t normally do just to catch their eye.
Sometimes, it works, and other times, it just leaves us feeling ridiculous. But, we still do it anyway, for that slight chance that it may work.
Playing hard to get
Another tactic we use to grab men’s attention is to act as though we’re not interested. We may talk to them less, ignore their texts or calls, and overall just act less interested than we actually are.
It’s a risky game to play, but sometimes, it does work, and they become even more interested in us. But, we all know it’s just a game, and one that we’ve all fallen victim to at some point or another.
Laughing at everything he says
Another slightly absurd thing we do for men’s attention is to laugh at everything they say. Even if it’s not funny, we’ll still giggle and laugh along with them.
Sometimes, it’s just a way to make them feel good, but other times, it’s just plain annoying. But, if it makes them happy and gives us their attention, it’s worth it.
Acting ditzy
Next up on the list of absurd things we do for men’s attention is acting ditzy. We may pretend to not understand something that’s really simple or act as though we’re completely clueless about something that we really know.
It’s a way to make them feel like they’re smarter than us and give us a chance to play the “damsel in distress” role. It may work temporarily, but in reality, it’s not a great strategy.
Posting questionable pictures on social media
Thanks to social media, it’s easier than ever to grab someone’s attention. And one of the ways we do it is by posting questionable pictures on our profiles.
It could be a picture of us in a revealing outfit or a selfie that’s just a little too risqué. Whatever it is, we know that it’s going to get their attention, even if it’s not for the right reason.
Being overly affectionate in public
When we’re with someone we’re interested in, it’s natural to want to show them affection. But sometimes, we take it a little too far. We may be overly affectionate in public, holding hands and hugging at every opportunity.
It’s a way to show off our relationship and let people know that we’re taken, but sometimes, it’s just a little too much.
Acting like we’re high maintenance
For some reason, some men are attracted to women who are high maintenance. And so, we sometimes pretend to be that type of woman, even if we’re not. We may act as though we need constant attention and expensive gifts, even if we really don’t.
It’s a way to make them think we’re more desirable than we really are, even if it’s not authentic.
Flirting with other men to make him jealous
Finally, flirting with other men to make our target jealous is a common tactic. We may intentionally flirt with other guys when we’re with the one we like, just to make him a little jealous.
It’s a risky move, but sometimes it works, and we end up getting more attention from him than we did before.
Conclusion
In conclusion, there are a variety of absurd practices we do for men’s attention. From dressing up in a certain way to acting all coy and playing hard to get, we’ve all done things that we know are ridiculous.
But sometimes, they work, and we end up getting the attention we crave. Ultimately, it’s up to us to decide what we’re comfortable with and what’s worth it in the long run.