Despite how much the public talks about it, sex is still an enigma for many. There are several misconceptions about sex that are widespread, and it’s time to clear them up.

Let’s explore some common myths and replace them with factual information.

Myth 1: Penis size is the key factor in enjoyable sex

This myth has been perpetuated for decades, but in reality, it’s not true. The size of a penis doesn’t necessarily determine how much pleasure a partner will experience.

In fact, most women prefer an average-sized penis because it’s easier to accommodate different positions and angles. Sexual pleasure is more about the connection, chemistry between partners, and mutual pleasure.

Myth 2: Women can’t orgasm from penetrative sex

This myth is far from the truth. Most women can orgasm from penetrative sex, aided by clitoral stimulation.

In fact, women have the capacity for multiple orgasms in one session, and there are several positions and techniques that can help them achieve it.

Myth 3: Men think about sex every seven seconds

Despite the stereotype that men think about sex constantly, it’s actually a myth. Men don’t think about sex every seven seconds, and they certainly don’t think about it more than women do.

Research has shown that both men and women think about sex 19 times a day on average.

Myth 4: Women don’t enjoy oral sex as much as men do

It is a common myth that women do not enjoy oral sex as much as men do, but this is not true. In fact, many women experience intense orgasms from oral sex.

More women are becoming comfortable with this form of stimulation and seeking it out as a pleasurable activity.

Myth 5: Condoms aren’t necessary for oral sex

Condoms are an essential tool to protect against sexually transmitted infections (STIs). Even for oral sex, there is still the risk of STI transmission, and it’s necessary to use protection to reduce that risk.

Myth 6: Gay men have more sex than straight men

Another myth about sex is that gay men have more sex than straight men. While it’s true that both gay and straight people engage in different sexual behaviors, neither group necessarily has more sex than the other.

People’s sex lives vary, and there is no one-size-fits-all answer when it comes to frequency of sexual activity.

Myth 7: A virgin always bleeds during their first sexual experience

One of the most widespread myths about sex is that all virgins will bleed during their first penetrative sex. The truth is that not all women experience bleeding during their first sexual experience.

Bleeding occurs when the hymen (a thin membrane covering the vaginal opening) is stretched or torn, but it’s not always the case for all women. Moreover, there are different types of hymens, and some may be more stretchy and less prone to tearing than others.

Myth 8: Men are ready for sex all the time

This myth implies that men are always ready for sex, but it’s not true. Men experience physical and emotional changes that impact their sex drive. Stress, anxiety, illness, and even certain medications can reduce libido.

It’s a myth to assume that men always have an insatiable sex drive and are ready for sex at all times.

Myth 9: The pull-out method is a safe form of birth control

There’s a common misconception that the pull-out method (removing the penis before ejaculation) is a safe way to prevent pregnancy.

The truth is that the pull-out method is not entirely effective in preventing pregnancy, as pre-ejaculate or pre-cum can still contain sperm. It’s essential to use other forms of birth control to prevent unintended pregnancies.

Myth 10: Sex must always lead to orgasm

The fixation on orgasms in sex is a common myth. While orgasms offer great pleasure and release, it’s okay not to attain them every time.

It’s possible to enjoy other aspects of sex, such as intimacy, emotional connection, and pleasure, without reaching an orgasm. It’s important to enjoy sex for what it is and not put too much pressure on the outcome.