As important as physical attraction is when it comes to sex, words also play a crucial role in getting your man turned on. Saying the right things can arouse his senses and amplify his pleasure.
While some men may have their own preferences, here are 30 things to say in bed that are generally sure to get your man excited and satisfied:.
1. “I want you.”
Simple yet effective – telling your man that you want him is probably the most straightforward way to turn him on. Men love feeling desired and telling him outright that you want him is sure to get him going.
2. “You’re so sexy.”
Complimenting your man on his physical attributes is always a good idea. Telling him how attracted you are to him and how much his body turns you on is a great way to get him feeling confident and aroused.
3. “I love it when you touch me there.”
Directing your man’s attention to the places you want him to touch is a great way to guide him towards giving you pleasure. Knowing that he is satisfying you is sure to turn him on.
4. “I can’t wait to feel you inside me.”
Telling your man how much you are looking forward to having sex with him is sure to excite him and build anticipation. Adding specifics, like the feeling of him inside you, can take things up a notch.
5. “You make me feel so good.”
Telling your man that he makes you feel good is an easy way to stroke his ego and turn him on. Men love knowing that they are bringing pleasure to their partners.
6. “I need you.”
Telling your man that you need him – both emotionally and physically – can be a huge turn-on. Men love feeling like they are being relied on and needed by their partners.
7. “I want to explore your body.”
Expressing a desire to explore your man’s body is a great way to show him that you are interested in him as a sexual being. Men love being the object of their partner’s sexual curiosity.
8. “Your touch drives me crazy.”
Making it clear how much his touch affects you is sure to excite your man. Telling him that his touch drives you crazy is a great way to get him turned on.
9. “You’re the only one who can make me feel this way.”
Telling your man that he is the only one who can satisfy you in a certain way is a huge turn-on. Men love feeling like they have a unique connection with their partners.
10. “I want to taste you.”
Expressing a desire to give your man oral sex can be a huge turn-on for both of you. Men love being the object of their partner’s desire and oral sex is often highly arousing for them.
11. “I want to feel your hands all over me.”
Expressing a desire to be touched all over your body by your man can be incredibly arousing. Men love feeling like they have free rein to touch and explore their partner’s body.
12. “I want to ride you.”
Taking control in the bedroom can be incredibly arousing for both partners. Telling your man that you want to ride him is a great way to show him that you are confident and in control.
13. “I want you to take me.”
On the other hand, expressing a desire to let your man take control can be equally arousing. Men love feeling like they are in charge and calling the shots in the bedroom.
14. “I love the way you make me feel.”
Expressing how much you enjoy the way your man makes you feel is a great way to get him turned on. Men love knowing that they are pleasing their partners.
15. “You’re the only one I want.”
Telling your man that he is the only one you want sexually is a huge turn-on. Men love feeling like they are the only ones who can satisfy their partners in this way.
16. “I want to feel every inch of you.”
Expressing a desire to experience your man’s whole body can be incredibly arousing. Men love feeling like they are being appreciated and desired by their partners.
17. “I love it when you’re rough with me.”
If your man enjoys rough sex, telling him how much you love it when he acts rough can be a huge turn-on. Men love feeling like they can let loose and be themselves in the bedroom.
18. “I want you to take me harder.”
Expressing a desire for more intense sex can be a great way to turn your man on. Men love feeling like they are pushing the limits and satisfying their partners’ desires.
19. “I need you to make me come.”
Making it clear that you need your man to make you orgasm can be a huge turn-on. Men love knowing that they are capable of bringing their partners to climax.
20. “I love the way you taste.”
Telling your man that you enjoy the taste of his skin or body can be incredibly arousing. Men love feeling like they are being appreciated and desired by their partners.
21. “I want to try something new with you.”
Expressing a desire to try something new in the bedroom can be incredibly exciting for both partners. Men love feeling like their partners are open-minded and willing to explore with them.
22. “I love the way your body moves.”
Complimenting your man on his physical movements or rhythm is a great way to turn him on. Men love feeling like they are in sync with their partners both physically and emotionally.
23. “I want to be your dirty little secret.”
If your man is into secret or taboo fantasies, telling him that you want to be his “dirty little secret” can be incredibly arousing. Men love feeling like they have a special and secret connection with their partners.
24. “I want you to make me scream.”
Expressing a desire to be loud and vocal during sex can be incredibly arousing for both partners. Men love knowing that they are having a powerful effect on their partners.
25. “I love the way you make me feel vulnerable.”
Expressing a desire to let your guard down and feel vulnerable during sex can be a huge turn-on for both partners. Men love feeling like they are in a safe and intimate space with their partners.
26. “I want to be your naughty little girl.”
If your man enjoys dominant/submissive play, telling him that you want to be his “naughty little girl” can be incredibly arousing. Men love feeling like they are in control and have power over their partners.
27. “I want to feel your body against mine.”
Expressing a desire to be close physically to your man can be incredibly arousing. Men love feeling like they are being embraced by their partners both physically and emotionally.
28. “I love the way you smell.”
Telling your man that you enjoy the way he smells can be incredibly arousing. Men love feeling like they are desirable and attractive to their partners.
29. “I want you to take me right here, right now.”
Expressing a desire for spontaneous and immediate sex can be incredibly arousing for both partners. Men love feeling like they are satisfying their partners’ desires.
30. “I love you.”
Ultimately, expressing love and emotional intimacy during sex can be the most powerful way to turn your man on. Men love feeling connected emotionally as well as physically to their partners.