Sex is an essential component of any healthy and satisfying relationship. Everyone deserves pleasure, and there’s no reason why you shouldn’t be exploring every option for making your time between the sheets as enjoyable as possible.
Here are 30 sex tips you can try out to drive him wild:.
1. Take Your Time with Foreplay
Don’t rush into sex; take the time to get your partner (and yourself) properly aroused. Kiss, touch, and caress him to build up anticipation and desire.
2. Communicate
If you don’t ask, you don’t get. Ask your partner about their sexual preferences and what they like or dislike. Encourage them to do the same, and you can create an open and honest dialogue that paves the way for great sex.
3. Initiate Sex
Initiating sex can be an incredible turn-on for both partners. Don’t wait for him to make the first move; take control and show him how much you crave him.
4. Use Your Hands
Don’t be afraid to use your hands during sex. They’re incredibly versatile and can stimulate multiple areas simultaneously while also showing your partner that you’re fully engaged in the experience.
5. Make Eye Contact
Eye contact during sex can be incredibly intimate and can emphasize the connection between you and your partner. It creates a feeling of trust and vulnerability, which can lead to deeper and more satisfying sex.
6. Try Oral Sex
Oral sex can be an incredibly pleasurable experience for both partners. Take your time, communicate with your partner, and focus on the areas they enjoy the most.
7. Experiment with Positions
Explore different sexual positions to find what works best for you and your partner. Experimenting with various positions can keep things fresh and exciting and can help you find new and interesting sexual experiences.
8. Focus on His Pleasure
Sexual pleasure is a two-way street. Focus on your partner’s pleasure, and it can lead to incredible feelings of satisfaction and closeness for both of you.
9. Don’t Be Afraid to Get Kinky
Don’t be afraid to experiment with kinkier side of sex. If you and your partner are both willing, exploring BDSM or other types of kink can be incredibly arousing and satisfying.
10. Use Toys
Sex toys can add an extra level of stimulation to sexual experiences. Experiment with a variety of toys, and find ones that enhance your pleasure.
11. Try Anal Play
Anal play can be incredibly pleasurable for both partners. Experiment with different techniques and toys, and make sure you’re fully warmed up and prepared before trying it out.
12. Roleplay
Roleplaying can be a fun and exciting way to add new levels of enjoyment to your sex life. Explore different fantasies, and let your imaginations run wild.
13. Make Music Playlists
Make a playlist of music that you both enjoy, and use it to enhance your sexual experiences. Music can set the tone for sex and create a more intimate and sensual environment.
14. Take Dirty Photos or Videos
Taking erotic photos or videos can add a new level of excitement and arousal to your relationship. Just make sure it’s something you’re both comfortable with, and keep it private.
15. Embrace Your Sexy Side
Being confident and comfortable in your sexuality can be incredibly attractive to your partner. Embrace your sexy side, and don’t be afraid to show it off.
16. Experiment with Temperature
Playing with temperature can be a fun way to add variety to your sex life. Try using ice cubes or heated massage oils to intensify sensations and create unique experiences.
17. Don’t Rush to the Finish Line
Don’t be too goal-oriented during sex; focus instead on enjoying the experience. Take your time, and explore each other’s bodies to find what feels best.
18. Use Your Voice
Your voice can be incredibly sexy during sex. Moan, sigh, and talk dirty to your partner to enhance the experience and show them how much you’re enjoying it.
19. Be Adventurous
Don’t be afraid to explore new and unusual sexual experiences. Trying new things can be incredibly exciting and can lead to new levels of satisfaction for both partners.
20. Don’t Be Self-Conscious
Sex is a natural and enjoyable experience. Don’t be self-conscious about your body or your desires; embrace them and enjoy the experience.
21. Use Visuals
Visual aids can enhance sexual experiences. Consider using porn, erotica, or even erotic artwork or literature to create a more sensual and erotic environment.
22. Use Your Teeth
Use your teeth to add an extra level of sensation to your partner’s body. Be gentle, though, and make sure you’re not hurting them.
23. Add Some Props
Props can add variety to your sexual experiences. Try using cuffs, blindfolds, or other BDSM equipment to add an extra layer of excitement.
24. Take Control
Take control during sex and dictate the pace and intensity of the experience. This can be incredibly arousing for both partners and can lead to deeper feelings of satisfaction and intimacy.
25. Create Sexual Tension
Create sexual tension with your partner by teasing them, withholding sex, or building anticipation through sexual fantasizing or dirty talk. This can lead to incredibly intense and satisfying sexual experiences.
26. Use Massage Techniques
Massage can be an intimate and sensual prelude to sex. Rub your partners’ body gently, paying attention to their erogenous zones, and create a relaxing and pleasurable atmosphere.
27. Be Vocal
Expressing what you’re enjoying can be incredibly arousing for both partners and can lead to a deeper understanding of each other’s preferences and desires.
28. Incorporate Food
Using food in your sexual encounters can be a fun and erotic way to mix things up. Try using whipped cream or chocolate sauce and let your imaginations run wild.
29. Focus on Touch
Touch is one of the most intimate and pleasurable sensations we experience. Take the time to explore your partner’s body, focusing on the areas that elicit the most pleasure.
30. Don’t Be Afraid to Laugh
Sex can be a funny and lighthearted experience. Don’t be afraid to laugh or to inject a little humor into your sexual experiences.