Sexual myths have been around for centuries, passed down through generations, and perpetuated by popular culture. These myths and misconceptions often lead to misinformation, confusion, and even shame and stigma.

In this video, we will debunk 30 common sexual myths to help you make informed decisions about your sexual health and well-being.

Myth 1: Men Think About Sex Every 7 Seconds

This myth is one of the most commonly repeated, but it is not true. There is no scientific evidence to support the claim that men think about sex every 7 seconds.

Men, like women, have a variety of thoughts throughout the day, including but not limited to sexual thoughts.

Myth 2: Women Don’t Enjoy Sex

This is a harmful and outdated myth that has long been used to shame and control women’s sexuality. In reality, women can and do enjoy sex, just like men do.

However, societal and cultural factors can make it more difficult for women to express their desires and enjoy sexual experiences.

Myth 3: You Can’t Get Pregnant During Your Period

While it is less likely to conceive during your period, it is still possible.

Sperm can survive in the female body for up to five days, so if you have sex towards the end of your period, there is a chance that the sperm can fertilize an egg once ovulation occurs.

Myth 4: Masturbation Causes Blindness

This myth is purely fiction. Masturbation is a healthy and natural form of sexual expression, and it does not cause blindness or any other health problems.

Myth 5: All Women Bleed During Their First Sexual Experience

This myth is not true. While some women may experience bleeding during their first sexual experience, others may not. Bleeding during sex can occur for a variety of reasons, including but not limited to hymen tearing or vaginal dryness.

Myth 6: You Can’t Get Pregnant If You Have Sex Standing Up

This myth is not based on any scientific evidence. The position in which you have sex does not affect your chances of getting pregnant. What matters is that the sperm can reach the egg during ovulation.

Myth 7: Women Who Have a Lot of Sex are “Sluts”

This myth is a harmful and sexist label that has been used to shame and control women’s sexuality. Women, like men, have the right to explore and enjoy their sexuality without being judged or labeled.

Myth 8: Only Men Can Have Multiple Orgasms

This is not true. Women, like men, can have multiple orgasms during sexual activity. However, women may require more time and stimulation to achieve multiple orgasms compared to men.

Myth 9: You Can’t Get an STD from Oral Sex

This is a dangerous and untrue myth. You can get sexually transmitted infections (STIs) from oral sex, just like you can from vaginal or anal sex.

It is important to practice safe sex and use barrier methods, such as condoms or dental dams, to reduce your risk of contracting an STI.

Myth 10: The Bigger the Penis, the Better the Sex

This myth is not true. Penis size does not determine sexual pleasure or satisfaction. What matters most is communication, consent, and mutual pleasure between partners.

Myth 11: You Can Tell If Someone Has an STI Just By Looking at Them

Many STIs do not have visible symptoms, so it is not possible to tell if someone has an STI just by looking at them. It is important to practice safe sex and get tested regularly to ensure your sexual health.

Myth 12: Women Should Always Have an Orgasm During Sex

This myth puts undue pressure on women to perform and can lead to feelings of inadequacy or shame if they cannot or do not have an orgasm during sex. While orgasms can be pleasurable, they are not the sole measure of sexual satisfaction or pleasure.

Myth 13: You Can’t Get Pregnant If You Douche or Urinate After Sex

These methods do not prevent pregnancy or protect against STIs. The best way to prevent pregnancy and STIs is to use barrier methods, such as condoms or dental dams, consistently and correctly.

Myth 14: The Pill Protects Against STIs

While the pill is effective at preventing pregnancy, it does not protect against STIs. It is important to use barrier methods, such as condoms or dental dams, to reduce your risk of contracting an STI.

Myth 15: You Can’t Get Pregnant if You Have Sex in a Hot Tub

This myth is not true. While the heat from a hot tub can kill or damage sperm, it is not a reliable form of contraception. It is important to use barrier methods, such as condoms or dental dams, to reduce your risk of pregnancy and STIs.

Myth 16: Your Sexual Orientation Can Be Changed or “Cured”

Sexual orientation is an integral part of a person’s identity and cannot be changed or “cured.” Attempting to change someone’s sexual orientation is harmful and can lead to mental health issues, such as depression and anxiety.

Myth 17: Birth Control Pills Make You Gain Weight

While some women may experience weight gain as a side effect of birth control pills, it is not true for every woman. Weight gain may also be due to other factors, such as diet and exercise habits.

Myth 18: Masturbation Is Only for Singles

This myth ignores the fact that masturbation is a healthy and natural form of sexual expression for people in all types of relationships. Masturbation can also be a way to explore and learn about your own body and sexual preferences.

Myth 19: Sex Can Cure a Headache

This myth is not true. While sexual activity can release endorphins and feel-good hormones, it is not a reliable cure for headaches or other physical ailments.

Myth 20: The Clitoris is Only for Sexual Pleasure

The clitoris is an important part of female anatomy that also serves a reproductive function. The clitoris contains many nerves and can provide pleasure and sexual arousal, but it also plays a role in female orgasm and contraception.

Myth 21: You Can’t Get Pregnant If You Have Sex in Water

This myth is not true. Sperm can survive in water for a short period of time, so it is still possible to get pregnant if you have sex in water, such as a pool or hot tub.

Myth 22: Menopause Means the End of Sex

Menopause does not mean the end of sexual activity or pleasure.

While menopause can lead to physical changes, such as vaginal dryness and decreased libido, there are many ways to maintain a healthy and fulfilling sex life, such as using lubricants and exploring different sexual activities.

Myth 23: You Can’t Get Pregnant if You’re Breastfeeding

While breastfeeding can decrease your fertility, it is not a reliable form of contraception.

It is still possible to get pregnant while breastfeeding and it is important to use barrier methods, such as condoms or dental dams, to prevent pregnancy and STIs.

Myth 24: Women Always Want to Be Pursued and Chased

This myth perpetuates the idea that women want men to chase them and be assertive in their pursuit. However, every person is different and it is important to communicate and respect each other’s boundaries and desires.

Myth 25: Sex Should Be Spontaneous and Unplanned

This is a myth that puts undue pressure on sex to be spontaneous and exciting every time. However, planning and communication can also lead to enjoyable and fulfilling sexual experiences.

Myth 26: Women Can’t Have Multiple Orgasms

Women, like men, can have multiple orgasms during sexual activity. However, some women may require more time or stimulation to achieve multiple orgasms compared to men.

Myth 27: Certain Sex Positions Can Determine the Gender of Your Baby

This is a myth with no scientific evidence. The sex of a baby is determined by the sperm and egg, not the position in which you have sex.

Myth 28: You Can’t Have Sex While Pregnant

You can have sex while pregnant, unless your doctor advises against it. However, it is important to communicate with your partner and avoid positions that put pressure on the abdomen.

Myth 29: Condoms Reduce Sexual Pleasure

Condoms can reduce the risk of contracting STIs and prevent unwanted pregnancy, but they do not necessarily reduce sexual pleasure. There are many types of condoms available, including those designed for increased sensation and pleasure.

Myth 30: Sex is Only for Young People

Sexual activity and pleasure are not limited to young people. People of all ages can and do enjoy sex and there is no age limit to sexual expression and exploration.