Condoms are used to prevent unintended pregnancies and sexually transmitted infections. The use of a condom is an essential tool for safe sex. Unfortunately, some men avoid using condoms due to various reasons.
These reasons can range from discomfort to plain ignorance. This article explores the top five excuses men use to avoid wearing a condom.
Excuse #1: “It Doesn’t Feel Good”
The use of a condom can reduce sensation and, therefore, pleasure during sex. However, not using a condom has a higher risk of unintended pregnancy and contracting sexually transmitted infections.
Men often use this excuse due to a lack of education on the importance of safe sex and how to properly use a condom.
Excuse #2: “I Forgot to Bring One”
Some men forget to carry a condom with them, which can lead to unprotected sex. This excuse can also be used to avoid using a condom intentionally. Men should always carry a condom with them, even if they don’t expect to have sex.
They should also check the expiry date before use.
Excuse #3: “She Said She is on Birth Control”
Birth control pills are effective in preventing pregnancy, but they do not protect against sexually transmitted infections. Men should not rely on a woman’s birth control method and should always use a condom as a backup.
Excuse #4: “It’s too Small”
Men with larger than average penis size may find it difficult to find the right size condom. However, there are various brands and sizes of condom available in the market. Men should experiment with different brands and sizes to find the best fit.
They can also try specialty stores that sell larger sizes.
Excuse #5: “She Doesn’t Want Me to Wear One”
Some women may prefer unprotected sex or may not like the sensation of a condom. However, it is important to prioritize one’s own sexual health. Men should have an open conversation with their partner and encourage the use of safe sex.
They can also suggest trying different types of condoms to find one that both partners are comfortable with.
Conclusion
Despite the various excuses, using a condom during sexual intercourse is vital for safe sex. It not only prevents unintended pregnancy but also protects against sexually transmitted infections.
Men should educate themselves on the importance of using a condom and be responsible for their sexual health.