Sex is an integral part of our lives, yet many of us have misconceptions and myths surrounding it. These myths are often perpetuated in movies, TV shows, and even by our peers, leading to unrealistic expectations, confusion, and sometimes even harm.

It’s time to get the facts straight and debunk 20 common sex myths – all in one video!.

Myth #1: Men Think About Sex Every 7 Seconds

This myth has been around for ages, but it’s simply not true. According to research, men think about sex an average of 19 times a day, not every 7 seconds. However, the frequency varies depending on age, relationship status, and other factors.

Myth #2: The Bigger, The Better

Many people believe that a larger penis is always better. However, size doesn’t necessarily matter when it comes to sexual pleasure. In fact, the most important factors are technique, communication, and overall chemistry between partners.

Myth #3: Women Don’t Enjoy Sex As Much As Men

This myth is not only untrue, but it’s also harmful. Women enjoy sex just as much as men do, and they can have multiple orgasms.

However, women may be less vocal about their desires due to societal expectations and stigmas surrounding female sexuality.

Myth #4: Masturbation Causes Blindness

This myth is simply absurd. Masturbation is a safe and healthy way to explore one’s sexuality and can actually have physical and mental health benefits.

Myth #5: Sex Can Cure Headaches

While some people do report that sex can relieve headaches, it’s not a cure-all. In fact, headaches during sex can also occur and may be a sign of an underlying health condition.

Myth #6: You Can’t Get Pregnant During Your Period

While it’s less likely, it’s still possible to get pregnant during your period. Sperm can survive for up to five days inside the female body, and ovulation can occur earlier or later than expected.

Myth #7: The G-Spot Is A Myth

The existence of the G-spot is still debated among researchers, but many women report experiencing pleasure from stimulation of an erogenous zone located near the front vaginal wall.

So, while it may not be a definitive ‘spot’, it’s definitely worth exploring!.

Myth #8: The Sexual Double Standard Doesn’t Exist Anymore

While progress has been made, there is still a double standard when it comes to sexuality and gender. Men are often praised for having multiple sexual partners, while women are shamed for the same behaviour.

Myth #9: Female Ejaculation Is Just Urine

This myth is not only untrue, but it’s also harmful. Female ejaculation is a real phenomenon and is the release of a fluid from the female prostate gland during sexual arousal and orgasm.

Myth #10: You Can Contract An STD From A Toilet Seat

This myth is a classic example of misinformation. STDs are transmitted through sexual contact, not by touching surfaces like toilet seats or doorknobs.

Myth #11: Condoms Are Not Effective

While no contraceptive method is 100% effective, condoms are an effective way to prevent unwanted pregnancies and reduce the risk of sexually transmitted infections.

Myth #12: You Can Tell If Someone Has an STD by their Appearance

Many STDs don’t have visible symptoms, which is why regular STD testing is essential for sexually active individuals.

Myth #13: Bisexual People Are Just Confused

Bisexuality is a real and valid sexual orientation, and people who identify as bisexual are not confused or going through a phase.

Myth #14: Sexual Compatibility Cannot Be Learned or Improved

Sexual compatibility can be learned and improved through open communication, trust, and experimentation.

Sexual preferences and desires can change over time, and it’s important to have ongoing conversations with your partner about what you both like and don’t like.

Myth #15: Sex is Only for Young People

Sexual activity and enjoyment are not limited to young people. Many older adults enjoy healthy sex lives and find that sex can improve their physical and mental well-being.

Myth #16: Men Only Care About Their Own Pleasure

This myth is not only untrue, but it’s also harmful. Men want their partners to enjoy sex and experience pleasure just as much as they do. Communication and mutual enjoyment are key to a satisfying sexual experience for both partners.

Myth #17: Oral Sex Is Not ‘Real’ Sex

Oral sex is just as real as any other sexual activity and can be just as satisfying.

It’s important to remember that different people have different sexual preferences and desires, and there’s no ‘right’ or ‘wrong’ way to have sex.

Myth #18: Women Should Always Have a Shaved Pubic Area

This myth is a product of societal beauty standards, but there’s no universally ‘right’ way to groom one’s pubic hair. Women should do what makes them feel comfortable and confident in their own skin.

Myth #19: Birth Control Pills Make Women Gain Weight

While some women may experience weight gain while on birth control pills, it’s not a universal side effect. In fact, modern birth control pills have lower doses of hormones and may not cause weight gain at all.

Myth #20: The First Time You Have Sex Will Hurt

This myth is not necessarily true and can be harmful to those who are inexperienced. Pain during first-time sex can occur, but it can also be avoided with gentle foreplay, communication, and the use of lubricant.